I wrote a little while ago about the issue of narcissistic women and how narcissism is being inculcated into them by so-called “self-help” books. The writer of “You do You” is just one example, and then I went on to point out that men need to evaluate women on more than just looks.
Then a few days ago I saw this slightly crude tweet about the “taste” in women of Prince Harry, the fifth in line to the throne.
The comments beneath it just show exactly what I’m talking about. Here are a couple of them (please excuse the language some of these posters use, I am not condoning any of it).
This first one makes the elementary mistake of thinking that if the girl is more beautiful this should automatically mean that the man should have chosen her. Goodness knows what the personalities of these girls are like, let alone his new fiancée, but that will have been part of his decision making process if he is sensible!
So her bedroom gymnastics are why he chose her? There were a lot of comments of this nature – and bearing in mind the followers of this account are almost all alt-right – guys, you are really screwing with yourselves if you think that if a girl has a proclivity for perverted, ungodly sexual activities that you should choose HER! Yuck!
Guys need to start taking seriously whether a woman has the qualities he needs in a helpmeet. Does she care about him, or always put herself first? Does she support his aims and plans in life, or does she carp and demand he earn a wage that pleases her desire for material goods? Does she want to be a mother and raise loving and civilised kids in a godly way? And of course, the biggie – does she love God more than she loves him?
Looks aren’t everything, and whatever I may think about picture-perfect Kalergi model, Meghan Markle, I don’t think she is lacking beauty! Many men would find her very beautiful. I am far more concerned about her because of the deep sense of unease I feel about her marrying into royalty, and the miscegenation propaganda this will foster amongst followers of the royals and the rest of society. I don’t get a good feeling about her at all, but to say this has anything to do with her looks, or that Harry should have chosen “the hot blonde” on the basis of her looks speaks to a lack of wisdom!
I’ll finish by saying that I often wonder if this attitude comes from the days when a King could marry a woman and really not have to listen to her thoughts, or her beliefs. The idea of the silent women, who just looks good, however, is just false, false, false! All throughout the bible women not only spoke, but also counselled and influenced their husbands! Not always for the better! Look at the story of Solomon, given the gift of wisdom, Solomon still ended up being lead astray by his many pagan wives.
Let that be a lesson to all men to look beyond beauty for a wife and life-partner!
God Bless you